Expectations

Hola people!

Yesterday I had a 'daughter mom chit chat' it was always awesome because I learnt new things always about life from her.I told my mom about one of my friend and about her condition.My mom did'nt said much about her, but she only said one thing "Expectations are root cause for heartaches"

She told me dont expects anything from anyone even with your loved ones.The one whom we have our expectations will not affect for a single second, its only you who will be affected

No one achieve anything with expectations from others, ultimately we just receive aches... and its really worst to give yourself pain just for other people. One of the biggest key for being happy is dont expect anything from anyone not with your family,friends,relatives,colleagues and even from yourself.Our expectations are so much from our loved ones and once they are not fulfilled you will be sad only not even that person will be sad in life. Only you will regret from expecting things.

One of the best way to avoid disappointment is not to expect anything from anyone, no matter how much someone is close to you in your life.

Even Shakespeare said ,

                                        I feel always happy you know why?

                                        Because I dont expect anything from anyone.

                                        Because expectations always hurts.

Dear all if you really want to stay happy then dont expect anything from anyone. I know its quite different because we only expect things from ones who are close for us. But dont expect why to make yourself sad?

Today I start not to expect anything from anyone as my mom told me to apply this in my life.I am more happy then I was , if somebody hurts me I dont care because I dont expect anything from them I am more relax and calm.I am even not bother to think , 'I never did anything bad to them why they do this?' I dont think this as before just because I dont expect and now I am happy without any ache.

In life expecatations when not fulfilled only gives you pain but , when we get something without expecting it gives you more pleasure.

Always remember

Happiness is only possible when we dont have any expectations.

                                        

STOP CRITCISING STUDENTS

I think once in our childhood we said that ,"I want to grow fast and want to study directly in class tenth , twelth or may be in college". But after comeing to class Tenth reality is totally different .

We run like animals in order to get good marks , ops not good marks its  98 or 99% .We must be 15 years old but we start developing our enemies for exam 'The so called competition' and we started takeing stress. I also go through all these stuff in my life and kept going. 

                      The journey of my experiences starts when I was in class Tenth , yet I am not able to perform what I want to just because  of my silly weakness  Hindi. My parents was OK about my results but I have a regret  as I used to perform very well in pasts. That was a horrible day ...all my relatives called me to know about my results I was like , so much of love in my result day . These all crab relatives start putting salt with lots of spices in my wound I said to myself never mind . Everybody knows board exam result its  like a rumour happened to any celebrirty . I felt worst when my friends messaged me , some called me to know what my result was even the ones who was getting some one or two points more than me. Everybody knows eachothers roll numbers then also they start haveing fun by asking my result . I still remember my three friends they are very precious in my life they console me , they were my real friends. The day I realised  , 'people  will not praise you in your good times but they will always chase you in your bad times'. It was a shocking thing for me I was a real friend to all in my class I helped each and everyone but the day when I really need support those shitties started haveing fun.

No one ever wondered what a 15 years girl was going through that day only I had my parents and my three special friends.

                    I know whosoever is reading this article once experienced this in their life. I never understand why suddenly people shift their focus on us? Its just a result day , not a big deal as if  we are going to die  that day . I have full support of my parents that time so I was not depressed but what about those students who doesnt get support of anybody. These students revolve alone in dark depression , anxiety  , they loose their confidence and only reason for all this is relatives , friends        (so called both) . In order to console the child they start chaseing as if he killed someone , they put blame , and start haveing fun . For all those so called friend let me  tell you , do you think its cool to have fun with a depressed person ? then start eating cow dunk or human shit it will be cool too. 

You will not realised untill you experienced it . I wonder how these relatives can say so much does they dont have their own kids? Again a day came that was my class twelth result , I was happy I got good percentage with an AIR in one subject . My relatives started calling me from last two days to know my roll number . I even dont know those relatives who called me from so far  , all day people called me I was like may be I had an accident the way they called . I opened my facebook account omg so many messages in my inbox . Yes it was my day to take revenge and chase those fake ones . I once have this thought in my mind but I was so busy that day I cant pull their legs. But its a human tendency how could I sleep that day without takeing my revenge I message a fake one even though I know that may be his percentage was not good .After makeing his fun in myself I dont know why I was not satisfied? I even console my other friends well I support them that day beacuse I know what it felt. I hate for what I had done to even think of doing such a bad thing. That day I realised theres nothing like revenge , it will never gives you any satisfaction .But when I console my friends and supported them I felt relaxed . 

                I know guys ones we feel down , we also want one day that person will feel the same but it doesnt gives you any satisfaction I experienced , it will only give you guilt of  doing silly stuffs. Every student work very hard in some way or other afterall he / she also wants to become something by clearing many entrance exams for IIT , CA , CS , AIPMT , NIFT and many other exams. He put his 100% by working day and night after exam then result came some may clear some dont . In order to support that student , you started putting salts by calling him , messageing him and just because you will feel good after knowing his rejection . If in case that student cleared then what , I dont think it matters for you anything and in yourself you will curse him .Stop being a bulley in a childs life because you even dont know how it matters for his life psycologically. 
Dear all fake ones I mean , all those people who are of his same age stop makeing fun of a student because you are also a student nobody knows when your day will come ?
Stop doing such fishy things one day you yourself loose your selfrespect because your soul knows everything . I personally experience this people know my result with rumours but they want to put me down so they messaged me . I got many lessons that time in my life I learn difference between real and fake and I deleted those shits from my life forever because I know things will not matter for them they will always curse me . Even when I came to my hometown there are some so called relatives who always asked me , ' dear where are you nowdays ?' I always said the same place where I am liveing and whatever I am doing . They asked me the same question even now after one year also , I was like I changed my college  in some month and my course  as I changed my hairstyle . Then I realised let the people bark because if you become something they will ultimately curse you and if in case you dont they will agin curse but with some fun .
         Dear all friends whether you are doing any job or student then dont feel bad in your bad time or by any persons words as they have mouth to bark so they will , just ignore and move on  but please stop criticiseing any student because you are also a student or once you was in case of your job. Give your support stop makeing his fun and dear all relatives think about your child once then say something to others.

Live in the present

When I was in class third , one of my teacher give me a quotation to speak in the morning assembly.I was not able to remember that quote , she practised  with me maybe 20 times so, that I could speak well. I always confused between the three terms in that quote they are Past , Future and Present . She helped me learn that quote so well that even now I remember. When I was a kid I never realised the importance of that quote but now I do ...When we were kids we were so insane , innocent that we dont even know , what we are saying .
That quote was                                Yesterday was the PAST
                              Tomorrow will be the FUTURE                              Today is a GIFT                              that is why we call it PRESENT. That was four line quotes but in reality its all about life .
I wonder why people say , 'live in the present ' and 'present is everything' around seven years ago .Dealing with many different phases I realised , thats totally true we must live in the beauty of present.Life was so insane and innocent when we were kids ,if we dont know anything then let it be. World is changeing day by day even faster then a second hand clock it leads to signs of disaster like competion , peer pressure , relatives pressure , depression and many negative thoughts.     These thoughts kills a persons mental ability day by day only negativity nothing else. We heard people while saying that , 'Thoughts are key of personality" and I believe it is damn true but when there are negative thoughts then it is worst. A person who really wants to move ahead but due to these n.egative peer thoughts he is busy in his past . Who will affect ? Does it affect the life of all shits peoples who you are kept thinking about? or yours?Nobody will be affected , it is you only whose life will be ruin and nobody will become the reason for that it will be you responsible for what will be going on with you .    Just have a clear thought what you want to do , ruin your life or want to move ahead ?I know its not easy we have to deal with many obstacles and make sure nothing can be happen in just only one day , we must have to try to overcome this thinking.

1. You must have to take step for yourself 

    The foremost thing to move ahead is to actually believe in you , to move ahead leave the garbage full of past thoughts to move ahead. Throw the garbage of past happenings and welcome all the beauty of positive thoughts with both hands.

2.Learn from your past mistakes

    Mistake is  a sign of human existence and everybody do them . Learning from your mistakes has its own charm. Learn from your past mistakes what you did and make sure you dont repeat them .

 

3. Stop worrying 

   The biggest mistake we did in our present is to worry about past happenings. We worry about these people who are nothing for us , most of the time we think about shitty people who even does not deserve even a single thought . These people will try to discourage you but make sure , you should not worry about them .Your past has gone stop worrying about it just focus your divine energy on present.

4.Be happy and smile

 Smile is the biggest remedy of every problem , if you will smile then powerful positive energy automatically will come towards you .Keep your beautiful smile in every situation, your surroundings will be happy and energetic.

5.Appreciate what you did today 

   We must appreciate ourself , our work and what we did in whole day this will end by make a positive day . You will definately work harder next day.

6. Thanks to every person who is with you in your blue.

   Give your gratitude to the ones who make your present perfect and this will make you happy .

The journey is not that much easy but atleast we must have to live in the PRESENT.

          Live for today and try to focus on what you have in present and stop thinking about past . You will get nothing except for immense pain . Look ahead and move on and take a resolution to live in the present.                                                                                                                                                 

Memories stay forever

Memories are part of our life they stay with you till you die . I saw my two friends who always there for each other but somehow , they have misunderstanding between them . One thing which is common in them now also , they are Memories  of their good  time as well as bad time .
The day will go but the memories stay along forever.
 Thinking about their situations I wrote some lines on them .

You ditch , leaving his heart to itch .

You walkout , with a long fight or shout .

You think to move on and walk alone

But you never walk alone , memories walk along

Sometimes you smile ,

Sometimes you cry.

You think you ‘ll get over it,

But you ‘ll always try .

You pretend it you have never been through I and you try to walk alone but memories walk along.

Memories of

The happy times, some of his lies, every time you tried to stay along his side .

And the day you say,

'I can never be yours just go away’.

Yet when he comes back to you ,

You neglect like once he used to do .

Then you try to walk alone,

He choose to walk alone too .

But memories always walk along .

It always walk along with both of you.

Time passes , things changes but memories are always there in the heart.

Believe yourself

People are afraid to take new steps in life. But I wonder why to afraid of people ? They are also humans . Its a common habit of people who takes any step in life whether it is good or bad they used to put their leg in that . People never praise people if they don't have any benefit for them . Every human is mean in their own way . Just because of these peoples why we afraid to take steps in life ?
Its our own life we have to learn how to deal with it.
Dont let the voice of critics paralyze you, You can do anything , You set your mind to.
          I saw many people who want to do something but just because of this phobia social phobia they can't even try to tell what they really want . Its all about believe , this believe word is very strong and have endless power . If we believe in something constantly it happens to us , it has immense power of both sides of coins if we believe positively it gives its results accordingly and vice versa . People are their to put you down in every situation but once you started believing in yourself then game will be shift . Everybody want others to be better but no one want others to be better than them . If we belief in what we do and have a strong desire then we will get it ,nobody will stop us.
    We all have relatives who loves to know about what we do they put taunts , compare but make sure that you dont listen to them . Just believe in what you do because in this world people are very selfish  they only interact when they have something . In hindi we say , "MATLAB KI DUNIYA  " which is correct . The main thing which count is you must have to believe in yourself , when no one believes in you .
Remember this always ,
  Every great dream begins with a great dreamer , always remember  You have within you the Strength , the Time and the passion to reach the Stars to change the world. Believe in yourself for a Change.

I believe that who we are who we choose to be . Nobody is come to change you and save you . You have got to save yourself . Nobody is going to give you anything you have to go out and fight for it. Nobody know expect for you what you want and nobody will be sorry if you dont get it  but if you really believe in yourself then you will definately win your race.

 Always Always Always
BELIEVE in YOURSELF
because if you dont then who will ???
so keep your HEAD HIGH
and keep your CHIN UP
and most importantly
KEEP SMILING
because life is a beautiful thing
there is so much to smile about .

An Eye on you: BE ORIGINAL BE YOU

An Eye on you: BE ORIGINAL BE YOU: Heyo!! lovely people..   Liveing in a hostel i always saw my roomie always concerns about her editing of her photographs. She used to ...

BE ORIGINAL BE YOU

Heyo!! lovely people..

  Liveing in a hostel i always saw my roomie always concerns about her editing of her photographs. She used to waste her time in thinking about her editing .
 My this article is all about new trend in life that is editing your originality 

Nowdays its a trends of clicking selfies ,photos but i wonder why people edit them ?

Why they dont want to be original ? Editing is like changeing your originality .. Even they are wasteing so much of time in editing those things which are natural like their colour , features ,lights,

body shape and so many things.Just to show others in social medias most common nowdays instagram ,facebook, whatsapp etc . 

                                                      People change their profile pics in whatsapp so many times in a day even they dont change their clothes . There is no problem in getting connected with friends , relatives , collegues but the matter of fact is they vanished their originality in order to be superior in loooks from others .If people loves to edit so , they must edit their souls by being a human rather than their pictures because changeing your originality shows lack of confidence , lack of courage of being whatever you are . Its really shame that they even cant except whatever they are . Editing your photos shows  that  you are not ready to show what you have . It does not matter how good looking you are.. the thing which matters is how a person you are from your soul .

                     As beauty fades with time but your soul and originality always remain what you are .

If really love to edit that edit  all the negativity from yourself which destroys your character not your photographs .

                Guys be you you are the reflector of your personality not being edit . Your originality is the key of being a human not your editing photograph.

              LOVE YOURSELF WHATEVER YOU ARE                           STICK TO YOUR ORIGINALITY 

                     LOVE YOURSELF  , BE YOURSELF