Wednesday, 2 September 2015

STOP CRITCISING STUDENTS

I think once in our childhood we said that ,"I want to grow fast and want to study directly in class tenth , twelth or may be in college". But after comeing to class Tenth reality is totally different .
We run like animals in order to get good marks , ops not good marks its  98 or 99% .We must be 15 years old but we start developing our enemies for exam 'The so called competition' and we started takeing stress. I also go through all these stuff in my life and kept going. 
                      The journey of my experiences starts when I was in class Tenth , yet I am not able to perform what I want to just because  of my silly weakness  Hindi. My parents was OK about my results but I have a regret  as I used to perform very well in pasts. That was a horrible day ...all my relatives called me to know about my results I was like , so much of love in my result day . These all crab relatives start putting salt with lots of spices in my wound I said to myself never mind . Everybody knows board exam result its  like a rumour happened to any celebrirty . I felt worst when my friends messaged me , some called me to know what my result was even the ones who was getting some one or two points more than me. Everybody knows eachothers roll numbers then also they start haveing fun by asking my result . I still remember my three friends they are very precious in my life they console me , they were my real friends. The day I realised  , 'people  will not praise you in your good times but they will always chase you in your bad times'. It was a shocking thing for me I was a real friend to all in my class I helped each and everyone but the day when I really need support those shitties started haveing fun.
No one ever wondered what a 15 years girl was going through that day only I had my parents and my three special friends.
                    I know whosoever is reading this article once experienced this in their life. I never understand why suddenly people shift their focus on us? Its just a result day , not a big deal as if  we are going to die  that day . I have full support of my parents that time so I was not depressed but what about those students who doesnt get support of anybody. These students revolve alone in dark depression , anxiety  , they loose their confidence and only reason for all this is relatives , friends        (so called both) . In order to console the child they start chaseing as if he killed someone , they put blame , and start haveing fun . For all those so called friend let me  tell you , do you think its cool to have fun with a depressed person ? then start eating cow dunk or human shit it will be cool too. 
You will not realised untill you experienced it . I wonder how these relatives can say so much does they dont have their own kids? Again a day came that was my class twelth result , I was happy I got good percentage with an AIR in one subject . My relatives started calling me from last two days to know my roll number . I even dont know those relatives who called me from so far  , all day people called me I was like may be I had an accident the way they called . I opened my facebook account omg so many messages in my inbox . Yes it was my day to take revenge and chase those fake ones . I once have this thought in my mind but I was so busy that day I cant pull their legs. But its a human tendency how could I sleep that day without takeing my revenge I message a fake one even though I know that may be his percentage was not good .After makeing his fun in myself I dont know why I was not satisfied? I even console my other friends well I support them that day beacuse I know what it felt. I hate for what I had done to even think of doing such a bad thing. That day I realised theres nothing like revenge , it will never gives you any satisfaction .But when I console my friends and supported them I felt relaxed . 
                I know guys ones we feel down , we also want one day that person will feel the same but it doesnt gives you any satisfaction I experienced , it will only give you guilt of  doing silly stuffs. Every student work very hard in some way or other afterall he / she also wants to become something by clearing many entrance exams for IIT , CA , CS , AIPMT , NIFT and many other exams. He put his 100% by working day and night after exam then result came some may clear some dont . In order to support that student , you started putting salts by calling him , messageing him and just because you will feel good after knowing his rejection . If in case that student cleared then what , I dont think it matters for you anything and in yourself you will curse him .Stop being a bulley in a childs life because you even dont know how it matters for his life psycologically. 
Dear all fake ones I mean , all those people who are of his same age stop makeing fun of a student because you are also a student nobody knows when your day will come ?
Stop doing such fishy things one day you yourself loose your selfrespect because your soul knows everything . I personally experience this people know my result with rumours but they want to put me down so they messaged me . I got many lessons that time in my life I learn difference between real and fake and I deleted those shits from my life forever because I know things will not matter for them they will always curse me . Even when I came to my hometown there are some so called relatives who always asked me , ' dear where are you nowdays ?' I always said the same place where I am liveing and whatever I am doing . They asked me the same question even now after one year also , I was like I changed my college  in some month and my course  as I changed my hairstyle . Then I realised let the people bark because if you become something they will ultimately curse you and if in case you dont they will agin curse but with some fun .
         Dear all friends whether you are doing any job or student then dont feel bad in your bad time or by any persons words as they have mouth to bark so they will , just ignore and move on  but please stop criticiseing any student because you are also a student or once you was in case of your job. Give your support stop makeing his fun and dear all relatives think about your child once then say something to others.